Coming out?

[Count]

Anyone came out to there friends about enjoying getting messy? Was it worth it? Would you recommend it? Im not really sure how someone thats not into it would react when they hear about it. Im tempted to tell my best mate, mainly cos I really want her to get involved, the though of her getting covered just really really really does it for me, shes stunning and could do with getting messy lol. Should I just keep this as a fantasy? Or it worth telling her and seeing what happen? or will it change how she is with me? hmmm :S lol

[NINA]

I think I'd keep it a fantasy to be honest. I never tell people stuff like this unless I really think they'd be into it or don't mind what they think. Normally I play it safe and look for people who I know are into things I like instead of trying to convert people who probably wont be

[messylaura]

if you want her to know then now is a good time as you can test the water by making sure you are with her to watch the billie piper sploshing episode, firstly find out if she has already seen it, if so work it into a conversation, then tell her you would love to try it

if she hasn't seen it, find away to watch it when she is about
its worth telling someone you are involved with, if its an unstarted relationship or a stranger then might wanna save it for a bit later, if you intend on buttering the bread

[NINA]

Actually that's a good idea about watching the Billie Piper thing as like Laura say's she might say"Hey that looks like fun!"

[Lizzie_Claymore]

If she's only a 'friend' at the moment then I'd be wary. If she doesn't see you as more than that then she won't want to take further steps with sploshing if it means that you're seeing her as more than just a friend, if you see what I mean. I think you need to find out first whether she'd be interested in doing 'anything more' with you than just friendship, first.

[Count]

I posted this the morning after the night before when I was still pretty drunk lol
I would love to see her getting messy and what not but I really don't think I would ever dare even mention it to her......when sober hmmmm so hopefully something wont slip out when were having a drink. Im usually pretty good at keeping my gob shut so fingers crossed lol

[sweetnpied]

I agree with watching something that has wamming in it. The biggest mainstream movie scene I can think of where you'll get a pretty good idea is maybe start with "Tommy." Ann Margaret gets literally overwhelmed with soap suds, baked beans and chocolate syrup. If she goes, "Eooouuuwwwww, that's disgusting," I think you'll know. If she says, "Mmmm, that's interesting," you have a match made in heaven! The first guy who got me interested in it had me watch Natalie Wood's massive pieing scene from "The Great Race." Convinced me to give it a go!

[messylaura]

it really depends on the person you are telling, some people accept others have fetishes some cant, if the person you are into isn't open minded then they aint really for you, wammers do need open minded partners
as for your freinds, some will take the piss, some will think oh, thats weird and not mention it either way, if you are lucky some might take a keen intreast in it
you need to belive in yourself and know what you love is normal, which it is, wamming is a normal fetish just by the shear number of people world wide into it

the one of the reasons people get hot under the collar when thier fetish is mentioned is because of just that, its thier fetish
do you get anxious when a fetish you are not intreasted in is mentioned in normal conversation, no i doubt it, you probably jump in with a few jokes too
once you got the balls to tell people you like wam, slap some custard on them, your balls that is................on the other hand, in for a penny............
worse thing you can do is not tell someone when getting commited to a long term relationship or marrage,

[Count]

I really would love to get messy with a friend or something but i think i am just going to leave it till next time im in a serious relationship as long as i feel they would accept it. well suppose it pointless being with someone if they cant accept me lol
Got all you guys to share tips and stories with in the mean time