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[mattbuck]

Did you use proper BDSM candles, or just ones you had lying around?

[BillShipton]

Tonight I spent a very jolly night in the pub with two BDSM ladies from the munch (next Wed if you are passing). I am rubbish at pain (both inflicting and receiving) but understand how it works for others. Personally using something as commonplace and slightly dated as clothes pegs makes me laugh but I can see they do the trick.

[Candy Custard]

Yes the pegs definitely worked...you should have seen the marks afterwards... good grief.

I have this urge to tell you all all about it but I suppose it's a very personal thing the reasons I had for doing it and what I experienced during and afterwards mentally, and would leave me feeling too vulnerable to spill it all here - but in a nutshell I never thought I would 'do' pain or understand it, but now I do... I 'get it' now and I am so pleased to finally understand what lies beyond a little slap and tickle. I would urge anyone with submissive tendencies to explore it.

The candles were just regular candles... wasn't even aware there are bdsm ones... presumably the wax with those is less hot? if so that's not needed. No terrible damage was done just was rather sore which was kind of the whole point. If the wax gets hotter though that would be a no no lol (I have already been warned about coloured candles)

[rich_d_rich]

"OUCH is not a safeword"

I like wax - that looks hardcore!

I might have mentioned this before, but you can combine messy and pain with hot oil/fat. Just not too hot, or it can leave a nasty burn. Plus follow the hot stuff up with icecream for extra fun and mess.

[muckypup]

The candles were just regular candles... wasn't even aware there are bdsm ones...

No neither was I! Such a newbie

[mhalver]

Always been a fan of wax pics.

[Sploshman]

Better you than me Cand's hun .

[mattbuck]

Yeah, BDSM candles don;t have such hot wax.

[muckypup]

Yeah, BDSM candles don;t have such hot wax.

Pah, must be for wimps What next WAM ice cream? Not too cold

[Candy Custard]

Yeah, BDSM candles don;t have such hot wax.

Pah, must be for wimps What next WAM ice cream? Not too cold

LOL muckypup !!!

[mattbuck]

That's just called cream.