Fringe fetishes

[eden]

Been meaning to ask this for ages!

So... Is wam your main fetish? Do you even consider it a fetish, or more something you do for fun, or even a lifestyle? What other fetishes do you have, (or are you dominant/submissive/top/bottom) and do they go with wam? I know we have a lot of CD and some bondage, watersports and so on on Splosh! but I dont recall a good ol' discussion. Its 3am so please indulge me... and here is my two cents:


I do consider wam a fetish, but for me it is more sexy play which I dont personally consider fetishistic in nature. (Does that make sense? Pole dancing makes me feel sexy but its not a fetish.. wam is like that for me.) I do consider it our main couple 'fetish', however. I dont have other particular fetishes - maybe shoes, although thats a different type of lust, I think! - but I'm quite submissive and a like a nice friendly slap and some loving mishandling.

[GeOrDiE_bOy]

I would say that we have fringe fetishes too, like a bit of bondage now and again and have used this with wam before. We are not prude by any length and we are always trying new things but would say that wam is our main fetish and its something we enjoy doing.

[Candy Custard]

ooooh, juicy thread eden nice one. This is going to be a looooong (and very personal response from me...hehe

wam - I would class maybe a a kink.... im not sure, becuase the porn side of it turns me on but doing it in real life becomes more sensual sexy play.... erotica to heighten the senses rather than being turned on by the look of it, then its the feel, and the naughtiness of doing something you are not 'meant' to do... but then sometimes it can be purely playful, a release and more slapstick and a laugh rather than sexual, though it leads to sexual stuff... sometimes a bit of everything at once...oh I dont know, its an odd one that! very complex...multifaceted, but I love it all!

Aside from wam I love bondage and dom/sub roleplay. I can switch quite easily but essentially, deep down I am sub. I have to have emotional attachment to be able to be truly sub though, but for dom I can do that without a second thought. having said that I think MonMouth, the guy that write this blog http://monmouth.blogspot.com/ could have me in 'helpless' mode pretty damned quickly... heres 3 of my fave extracts from it..........


"Saturday, August 25, 2007

What to bring
"You bring the wine, I'll bring the lube."

"Red or white," I asked, smiling at the thought of those two bottles standing side by side on her dresser. She was calling from a train station platform. Behind her, the announcement for the 2.19 to somewhere north.

"White. Get it chilled - the fridge is somewhat feeble."

I didn't ask. "Sure. Anything else? How are you set for food?"

"Good point. Can you drop by the deli?"

I said I would. She sounded rushed, too many things on her mind. "Look, just be there, and I'll bring the goodies. Except the lube. You've got that covered."

Later, I would place the cold bottle, wet with condensation, on her bottom, red from spanking.

She would wince in blindfolded surprise, then sigh deeply.

But that was later."

and


"Saturday, August 18, 2007

Exercise 6: Imprint
For this exercise, you need one tube of very red lipstick, a flat spanking paddle with a shiny surface, and a camera.

First, instruct the spankee to apply the lipstick generously, particularly in the middle of the top and bottom lips. If it's a boy, all the more naughty.

Then, with freshly painted lips, the spankee should kiss the middle of the paddle, transferring as much of the lipstick as possible on to its surface, then bend over.

Apply one steady, straight and moderately forceful stroke of the paddle, pressing it tightly up against the spankee's buttock. This should, if all goes as planned, leave a lip-imprint on the skin as if the sub had somehow kissed his/her own arse.

Take a digital photo, set the camera to show it, place the screen in front of the sub to enjoy looking at while being spanked"



and


"
Sunday, October 19, 2008

Welt
The scratches down my forearm lasted only a day or so. There were marks a bit longer where she had dug her nails into the mound of my deltoid while I held her thighs apart and slid my tongue up and down the length of her slit. Her scent filled my nostrils and she ground the wet softness of her cunt into my face - in the midst of all this I couldn't possibly notice the welts forming on my skin. Or rather, I noticed, but I didn't care, the sensation adding to the intoxication of the moment.

When I got up to find the condoms, she lunged for my cock with her mouth. Playing the game, I couldn't let her get what she wanted so easily. I slapped her face softly but firmly with the flat of my hand.

"Restrain yourself, or you'll get punished."

She smirked and took another shot, her mouth open, hungry.

I slapped her again across the face, harder, back and forth, the palm and the back of my hand striking the warm, flushed cheeks. To keep her still I held her head by clutching a handful of her brown curls between my fingers.

Once the condom was on I had the good sense to hold her down by the wrists while I slid myself into the twitching grasp of her pussy"

oh.my.god.


other things I like include tights... for many reasons... filling them with slop... and theres something irresistably naughty about the 'not quite but almost' barrier... and someone sliding a hand inside them. I love 'fuck me' shoes (buying them, wearing them, and seeing other girls in them) and having anything done to my own feet, and the look of girly feet. I love convincing cd/tvs as well... very sexy

w/s I can live without, though its ok and could be interesting combined with a little roleplay. I would have to be seriously bored with my sex life and pretty much exhaust all other avenues before I would suggest doing that myself, which I cant see happening, though im always open to the suggestion from someone else

my biggest, ultimate fetish is cunnilingus. yes, fetish. I know youd be hard pushed to find a girl that doesnt like it, but trust me youd have an even tougher time finding one that likes it more than me ohhhhmygod its just my favourite thing on the planet ever. cant ever live without it...watching it pornwise, or receiving it, couldnt live without either. I mean seriously, couldnt live. I would go completely stark staring insane!! If I had to choose just one fetishy type thing for the rest of my life it would be that!

hopefully no ones going to make me choose though - lol the very best thing about wam is it can be incorporated into all of those, sometimes a few at once and im sure many other things out there that people like too

blimey. feel rather warm now!

[Spinynorman and Frilly]

Not really fetishes as they do not feature all of the time but when we have a special night in that's not messy we like to play with porn, pvc clothes and undies, stockings, sex toys and cameras. We always use lots of oil and lube whether it's a messy session or not.

[wammale]

Hi
not posted for an age, but this seems a pretty good one to start again with.

I'm with CC on a lot of them, although I suspect you'll probably find that people into wam are likely to have at least one other related kink/fetish. I remember a while ago seeing a fetish map,showing how they are all linked - quite interesting stuff really.

Anyway, as I was saying, for me wam is definitely one of my main kinks, with womens shoes & feet close behind. Although this has crossed over now to me buying/wearing mens boots that are great for filling or just wearing barefoot, as well as womens shoes. Wouldn't class myself as a full CD but something about wearing heels, and getting messy in them. Also love latex, pvc, and this again crosses over into wearing womens latex stockings, skirts - but see this kind of clothing as unisex, if that makes sense?, rather than wearing day to day womens dresses etc. Love the 'second skin'/sexy feeling more than the fact its labelled as female. Love seeing women in them too. Definitely bondage, and yes, happy to be sub or dom, can switch pretty easily...love being tied up (not tried it with wam yet, but will do after my recent purchase - just crying out to be used) and being used - female strapon and all - and tieing up. As for others - candle wax, shaving and being shaved, watersports when the mood takes me,and erotica in terms of the naked and clothed body photographed - would love to have a photo session..just not the same using the timer with camera carefully balanced on the top of a unit lol.

Phew...think that'll do for now.

M x

[muckypup]

Not really fetishes as they do not feature all of the time but when we have a special night in that's not messy we like to play with porn, pvc clothes and undies, stockings, sex toys and cameras. We always use lots of oil and lube whether it's a messy session or not.

What? No bikinis?

[Spinynorman and Frilly]

Not really fetishes as they do not feature all of the time but when we have a special night in that's not messy we like to play with porn, pvc clothes and undies, stockings, sex toys and cameras. We always use lots of oil and lube whether it's a messy session or not.

What? No bikinis?

That's on our messy nights.

[andi41]

I consider crossdressing my main fetish as I do this alot more than sploshing.I like to mix the two if /when I get the chance,but am quite happy with just the dressing up.One of my fave things is wearing sexy underwear(stockings,suspenders,knickers etc)underneath my normal clothes sometimes when I go out.
Have tried bondage in the past but wasnt that keen,although I dont think its something i'd totally rule out in the right circumstances(hot female,mess!)

[eden]

Thanks guys. I found a fetish map (http://img299.imageshack.us/img299/1505/fetishkp8.gif) which I though was interesting but not quite spot on. I didn't find any gender-switch or CD/TV, but its pretty hard to read. (Edit.... I found a better version and it has little gender, gay, lesbian and 'may involve cross dressing' signs.)

Candy, I loved the first two extracts. Have you read Dancing With Werewolves? Its probably my favourite book. Its by Nikki Flynn, a spanking model and is quite autobiographical (and also a little specialized if you don't like spanking) but its very, very erotic. I think you'd like it.

[capistrano37]

Thanks guys. I found a fetish map (http://img299.imageshack.us/img299/1505/fetishkp8.gif) which I though was interesting but not quite spot on. I didn't find any gender-switch or CD/TV, but its pretty hard to read. (Edit.... I found a better version and it has little gender, gay, lesbian and 'may involve cross dressing' signs.)

Here's another fetish map that takes a different approach to it:

http://www.symtoys.com/sexmap/

It has an interface where you can put in 'pushpins' for where you've been and where you want to go-- very primitive but you can save yours and give the url to others (can't edit or undo at all though)

I thought the 'Sploshing' part of their fetish world was woefully small, of course :-)

[eden]

That one is more fun... and actually good when you do it and realise where you've not been!

[messymaddy]

What a fascinating thread - and Candy, those extracts left me quite weak at the knees!! For me its all about being a sub - I have always loved to be tied up and whipped and spanked and slapped around and humiliated in front of an audience so really wam is an erotic extension of that for me - although when I first tried it I fell i love with how it felt - the immersion in different foodstuffs and the sheer subby delight of having a big sticky, creamy pie smashed hard into your face and rubbed in felt sooo damned good. I love the experience of getting totally trashed, and my messy clothes ripped off; being bi I also love to feel another girl rubbing food all over me; and the experience makes me so horny I love to get fucked when I'm messy - either with a strap on or a nice hard cock - one thing I am not is fussy!!

[marlena_pies]

must be in drag and preferably smoking while getting belted with pies.

[naughtyjim]

Here's another fetish map that takes a different approach to it:

http://www.symtoys.com/sexmap/


I thought the 'Sploshing' part of their fetish world was woefully small, of course

Yeah, so did I! Many of my fetishes lay in the impassible regions too for reasons I have no idea about: I seemed to pass them quite easily and it was all between consenting adults (HUMANS!)

In answer to the OP

http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/p/NaughtyJim/

No, not by a long stretch!!

[Noah]

my biggest, ultimate fetish is cunnilingus. yes, fetish. I know youd be hard pushed to find a girl that doesnt like it, but trust me youd have an even tougher time finding one that likes it more than me ohhhhmygod its just my favourite thing on the planet ever.

Want me to pop round? I love the taste of pussy!