i want a gateaux in my face

[DecadentDoll]

I've WAM'd with men before, And it's just as much fun as WAMing with a girl.

How can it be? I have always considered wamming to be sexual. Doing it with another guy would be a complete turn off in my opinion.

To YOU it would be a turn off. In YOUR opinion it would be a complete turn off.

A lot of people are into sploshing for different reasons, I like to use chocolate in sex, but I can eat a bar of it without cumming in my pants (most days).

Each to their own. Your attitude, however, can seem quite intimidating to me, speaking as a woman on the forum. Calm your pants, por favor.

xxx

[Hayley]

My messy fantasies always involve men and women and in reality I have got messy with both and enjoyed it in different ways (both sexual, I have to admit).

I think men are different though. Some do have a problem lightening up with another bloke. Perhaps they don't want to show their feelings in front of another guy (for example get a stiffy when custard is poured into their pants) in case it seems somehow unmanly. I am not saying they should feel like that, cos they shouldn't but a lot do (in the days of the magazine the majority didn't want to see men at all!).

I am delighted that we have so many guys who are relaxed about seeing and sploshing with other men, and I LOVE the CD crowd! But if you are not one of them yet and still in the 'girls only' camp, I think there is still plenty on this forum for you (without it turning into a model fest!).

I think the sexual mix on our forum is quite good, and the atmosphere is friendly. But aggressive or demanding posts are certainly not going to be popular with either sex, so drop those if you want to encourage people to chat to you.

Hayley

[DecadentDoll]

Very well said, Hayley. (A lot calmer then me too!)

xxx

Ranty Dolly xxx

[zoegunge]

my own preferences.. I prefer to look at girls being gunged but prefer to be gunged by a guy,,,, not sure why, just the way it is.
Each to their own

[wamram]

I think men are different though. Some do have a problem lightening up with another bloke. Perhaps they don't want to show their feelings in front of another guy (for example get a stiffy when custard is poured into their pants) in case it seems somehow unmanly.

I am delighted that we have so many guys who are relaxed about seeing and sploshing with other men,

Hayley

Hope this makes sense I've been on the Stella for a few hours now ,

As Hayley said some men have a problem with "lightening up" with another man and "worry" about getting a erection during a messy session. I'll admit when I've sploshed with a man before I've started to get a stiffy and not been ashamed and if the man I'm sploshing with gets one as well so what? Just because we're stripped to our pants or naked it doesn't mean we're suddenly going to start having sex because we've got stiffy's, You have got to be able to take the "Sexual" element out of it if your just there for "messy fun" and nothing else even if your both nude and "aroused".

A few months ago I sploshed with a female friend I know well and trust and she also trusts me, We've never had sex together but during the session I had a erection I was proud off and she was also "aroused" getting wet down below. But we were there for messy fun and nothing else she wasn't worried that once we we're naked and I had a "stiffy" I was going to demand sex with her. If we had have had sex it would have been if we were both wanting it and were consenting if it had happened it would have happened but it didn't. We even showered together after to get clean. She trusted me and I respected her that all she wanted was messy fun and a laugh and a joke and a good time. Just because we we're a man and woman, naked and messy and both sexually aroused didn't mean we we're going to suddenly start fucking each other senseless.

What I'm trying to say is you've got to be open and honest with the person your getting messy with and have mutual trust in each other whether it be a man or woman. If your there for messy fun only make it clear before you start the session.

Sorry if I've gone on a bit I'm getting a bit philosophical, But that my opinion and how I can splosh with a man or a woman and be able to put the sexual "part" aside.

But it's been said before and I'll say it again, "Each to their own"

[Hayley]

Made good sense to me, Wamram.

The Stella either hasn't kicked in yet or you are a lager-based lifeform.

Hayley

[andy250]

I splosh with both sexes, and do shoots with both and doesn't bother me.

I too have had experience's where I start getting turned on, my last session with Andrea was one. We ended up chatting about it later and both saying we would have liked to have gone a little further.

The most famous one was with Hilary from David Glews old place. We both openly said afterwards we would have gone farther, though it was a splosh day and we didn't want to frighten the punters!!!!!

It is a case of being open and not letting things bother you.

regards

Andy

[Richard]

Given that many sploshing sessions involve nudity, I find that there is some crossover with my other interest (No, not steam trains ). I have never thought that getting an erection was 'unmanly', quite the reverse! However, in a naturist environment it just doesn't happen, in fact when I've been with my girlfriend at a naturist resort it's sometimes difficult to 'switch off' and resume normal sexual relations when we get to bed.

I have no problem sploshing with men or women but I'm not sure about the CD people. It confuses me (That will get me an earbashing from Andy next time we meet! ). If an erection occurs during a sploshing session, I don't think anyone these days would be offended, more likely amused!

Richard.

[stockingman]

Was there really any need for scientists to invent Viagra when all you really need is a few tins of custard!!

[wamram]

Made good sense to me, Wamram.

The Stella either hasn't kicked in yet or you are a lager-based lifeform.

Hayley

At last I've found a woman who understands me when I'm pissed

[stonecastle]

Can't see why some men run a mile at the mention of Sploshing with another man

Because it is no fun at all. To me sploshing is fantastic fun when done with a good looking woman, because then there is sexual tension. But sploshing with another man is not sexual at all and so not much fun.

I mean sometimes when I and I bet a lot of other guys too see a really hot woman walk past in the street I think to myself wow, it would turn me on like mad to get messy with her.

[DecadentDoll]

i guess we'll just never get through to you...stonecastle.

ive said, and other people have said before...you're entitled to your own opinion, but we're all entitled to ours...and you can dispute it if you like, that's your prerogative!


BUT

when you continue to repeat yourself over and over again each time you return...in such a tone that makes us out to be freaks for liking what we like...well it's really not in the spirit of the forum.

You coming to the meet is a good idea, get out and meet us and see how it goes.

I'd love to know how many women have got messy with you, and how you managed to get them to.... not being insulting, well, not purposefully... but I have to wonder, I truly do.


Now that's over and done with...who wants some pie? All sexes welcome..its not whats between your LEGS that counts, its whats between your EARS! Get it?



(oh and wamram..well said.)

[ranoversv]

Hello DD
I really would love to get messy with you...so sad that Lond is a little far for me...lol
I only have fun getting messy with girls, specially girlfriends.
I once got messy from boys in a birthday joke and there was no fun on it.
However the important is to do what you like, and have fun.

And about to know another girl and get messy with her, I haven't talked with much girls from this forum, I don't how much they are, but looks a little difficult to get in contact with they, in another ways than the forum posts,
like on msn or another IM chat...
I just talked sometimes with DD =)
(if you don't rememer who I am, I'm your only orkut friend! lol )

Good messy times for everybody

[wamram]

Now that's over and done with...who wants some pie? All sexes welcome..



(oh and wamram..well said.)

Thanks Dolly

Now about this pie you want to give someone, You can give it to me if you want.....................

[DecadentDoll]

K then mister, where would you like it ?

xxx