Why?

[dougiezerts]

Have any of you ever thought about why you're attracted to the WAM fetish? I have--serveral times! And I can come up with no rational explination.
Like most, it started for me with wetlook. I saw girls/women let wet fully clothed in movies/TV shows, and I'd say to myself, "Wow, they look very pretty, that way!" I can remember at my local pool seeing a girl get pushed into the water with her shirt on, over her bathing suit, and feeling very aroused!
Other substances came later. When I was in the 5th grade, our teacher one day showed a short film called FUNNY FEET (or something like that). It showed kids doing various things with their feet. In the last scene, a painter has just set his painting out to dry in the sun. A barefoot girl walks by. She starts "skating" across the painting, getting her legs and feet covered in paint!
The movie TOMMY was a real turning point, for me, as I'm sure it was for the rest of you!
But to get back to my original point, I honestly have no idea why I'm attracted to it!

[messylaura]

the reason we like wam is because we are not cats







maybe i should explain a bit more LOL

the way i see enjoying the feeling of wam rather than the visual of it is that when we were in our mummies tummies we were imersed in liquid
so when we are covered in stuff or submerged in mud we get a sensation feeling that mimiced our very first feelings, feeling of safty and home, etc

as for the cat bit, well its why cats like being coaxed so much by humans, because the coaxing replicats there mothers washing and grooming them as babies

antway the womb thing would have been the only time i would have been covered in stuff like that to have the trigger feeling in the first place

as for the visual? not got time to go through that one and i cant find the girraffe to demonstrate

[stockingman]

"I can remember at my local pool seeing a girl get pushed into the water with her shirt on, over her bathing suit, and feeling very aroused!
Other substances came later."


I bet they did lol!!

[DungeonMasterOne]

i don't think it does go all the way to the womb, else there'd be more wammers, but it is something that seems to be triggered in childhood.

Then again, there are so many variations in what people actually want to do/see in WAM, possibly different approaches are started in different ways? I remember seeing Cannon and Ball filling each other's trousers with food when I was about 9, and wanting someone to do the same to me. Then a few years later I saw Sally James and other attractive women soaked/gunged on Tiswas, about the same time I saw a small pic in an old copy of Reader's Digest that showed a woman dressed in pink trousers and turquoise top panning for gold in the USA. She was squatting in the water so her bum and legs were soaked but the rest was dry, for ages I found that image deeply arrousing.

Then in the teenage years came "On Safari" and TV celebrities in well fitting boilersuits going into that bolognaise-sauce-style swamp and then getting soaked in the water game.

And then there was Noel's House Party, though the fetish was fully manifested by then so that was just consumption rather than triggering.

[Squelch]

I agree with DM1...'something' is triggered in childhood. Funnily enough I can remember some quite clear dreams as a 9 or 10 yr old then which were the beginnings of my splosh interest. About the same time I remember thinking how good it would feel to roll around in a muddy corner of a field or in a muddy pond. Thoughts of doing it with the opposite sex never crossed my mind at that age

Then later it was the usual things...ducking stools at carnivals, Noels House Party, Tiswas etc. I remember watching a story on our local news about a charity mud wrestling event and thinking..'i want some of that'

[messylaura]

.......feeling very aroused!
Other substances came later."

thats puberty for yay

[dougiezerts]

I wish I grew up in England so that I could have watched TISWAS! In the 70's, there was a US show with a similar concept--ALMOST ANYTHING GOES. Teams competed in various wild games. Most were dry, but every episode had a wet event. And the contestants wore shorts, not bathing suits.

[DungeonMasterOne]

And the contestants wore shorts, not bathing suits.

Shorts do seem to be a very US thing - holiday crowds in the US appearing on news programmes always seem to be mostly in shorts, while the same UK crowds would be mainly in full-length trousers or jeans.

[matt2matt2002]

With me, it's the humiliation aspect.

As in another thread here - I like to cross dress in undies and look 'so so ' neat, and then mess the lot up.

I remember a childhood experience of being dressed as a sissy by girls who lived near me and I guess I have hooked ever since.

[Custard Lover]

I'm with messylaura in that the physical sensation is just, well, "nice", relaxing and somehow therapeutic in an amniotic kinda way. I also think it's got a lot to do with the idea of breaking with convention and doing something utterly outrageous and silly. Certainly if sploshing with a partner it breaks down barriers and is really quite initimate, as is any fetish I s'pose, since it says you have nothing to hide from that person and you aren't afraid to look a bit silly in front of them.
I once read somewhere as well that another reason blokes like the look of a girl who's all wet is because sub-conciously it's linked to a girl being sexually aroused, if you get my drift without going in to too much detail.

[andy250]

I think Dm is right, for myself it deffo started in my childhood, Tiswas was a big factor, (sally James has a lot to answer for!!!) then it moved on as I got older, razzle romps etc. Thease days I just think its great fun.

regards

Andy

[DecadentDoll]

For me its the rebellion, getting told off for getting messy as a kid made it naughty.

there is a great quote Bill told me about, Grayson Perry said "some of the things we fear as children we eroticise as adults"

i think it sums up a lot of my kinks.

[Spinynorman and Frilly]

Grayson Perry said "some of the things we fear as children we eroticise as adults"

i think it sums up a lot of my kinks.

I was really frightend of the Cybermen when I was a nipper.

[dougiezerts]

I am NOT turned on by the humiliation aspect of the fetish. If the lady isn't really enjoying it, that lessens my own enjoyment of watching her do it.
It's the playfullness/wildness that I enjoy. "Hey look, I'm going swimming with my clothes on!" or "Hey look, I'm wallowing in the mud!"

[Hayley]

Oh dear, why do I like getting messy? - All of the above!

Sometimes I like the warm womblike caress of a bath in my clothes.

Sometimes I like the playful misbehaviour of a pie fight.

And a lot of the time I like being 'humiliated' by getting smartly dressed and then completely fucked up in every sense.

I think childhood has something to do with it. If you had parents who were always telling you to keep clean (like mine) and not to wreck things cos they were expensive, it is a great form of rebellion to do it now. Perhaps that's where Grayson comes in (Perry not Larry). I was always afraid of being told off for being in a mess as a child.

Oh and can I add another? There is an exciting ritualistic thing as well with all the "You wouldn't dare!" and "Let me have it!" dialogue during messy sessions that adds to the excitement.

BTW, there is a huge difference between real humiliation and play humiliation. Somebody genuinely hating something is unpleasant, somebody willingly having something unpleasant done to them (cos they like it) is fine by me.

That's enough philosophising from me...I am a blonde afterall.

Hayley