She Was turned Off By It!

[dougiezerts]

Hi, SPLOSHers! Sorry I haven't posted in a while!
My girlfriend and I took a bubble bath together. Knowing I like wet clothes, she put on an old shirt and pants she had.
But she didn't like the feeling of it! She said that it felt heavy and uncomfortable, and she thinks she's too old to be doing that! (She did let me take a few photos of her; she looks hot!) So she changed to a red silk top, and she said she felt more comfortable wearing that in the water.
Have any of you gotten reactions like that from your ladies? If so, how have you handled that?
Also, do any of you ladies (Hayley!) have any advice on how I can make it more enjoyable for her?
Thanks in advance!

[matt2matt2002]

yep, I have had that reaction to 'ideas'. Guess you have to infer it would make you happy and it is good to 'give'. Do something for her in exchange - a bit of horse trading?

[Hayley]

Hi

Sorry, am I being a bit blonde here? She enjoyed getting wet in the silk but not in the old shirt? Isn't that a good thing? Wet silk feels fab. Wet cotton can feel a bit heavy if it's not your thing (heavier the better for me!). So it was a partial result in so far as she go wet in something, but not what you initially had in mind? That sounds a reasonable compromise.

As for being too old....no such thing. Certainly not in the privacy of your own home.

But swopping fetishes is a great idea. You do one for her and vice versa. You might find something she likes that does it for you too.

Hayley x

[messylaura]

swapping fantasies and fetishes is good fun and intreasting what new stuff you will like

just not got anyone to swap with at the mo

[dougiezerts]

Thanks for your advice! Yes, they were cotton, and I guess that's what turned her off. One plus: I'm attracted to feet. I don't think she'd take too well to ruining her shoes!
I should mention that we have covered ourselves in chocolate syrup on several occasions--with her clothed--and she's enjoyed that.