Why?

[dougiezerts]

And you're a "dirty blond," Hayley!
"Ritualistic"--I like that term. Perhaps playing in liquids does have a ritualistic aspect to it. Modern tribalism.
Of course, you're right. Play humiliation is quite different from real humiliation.

[DungeonMasterOne]

Oh and can I add another? There is an exciting ritualistic thing as well with all the "You wouldn't dare!" and "Let me have it!" dialogue during messy sessions that adds to the excitement.

Yep, agree with that. I think this also crosses over into the "game of chance" approach where models play some game (usually sicsors, paper, stone) and the winner gets to gunge the loser each time. Lady Jasmine and Nurse Wendy-Household had a go at that a while back (it's on the site) and there was an incredible feeling of anticipation between each round, especially at the start when they were both clean and neither knew who'd be getting what done to them first.

The Japanese produces seem to be complete masters of this kind of thing.

BTW, there is a huge difference between real humiliation and play humiliation. Somebody genuinely hating something is unpleasant, somebody willingly having something unpleasant done to them (cos they like it) is fine by me.

Yep, agree totally. It's like the difference between Informed Consent and beating someone up.

That's enough philosophising from me...I am a blonde afterall.

Perhaps we should have a rule that anyone who makes blonde jokes here should be made to sit fully clothed in a bath filled with 500 litres of custard...

[Richard]

For me there has to be a 'logical' reason for getting messy, even if the logic has to be stretched a bit. I like to have a scenario for a tit for tat session rather than an all out messing for no particular reason, which is why I don't particularly favour self sploshing (although it is better than nothing). I still have some ancient writing books from my primary school days in which I have primitive outlines of my fantasies concieved during the early stages of puberty. Fleshed out they still would be the basis of erotic stories and may have been the beginnings of my story writing hobby.

[Squelch]

And a lot of the time I like being 'humiliated' by getting smartly dressed and then completely fucked up in every sense.

Yep, agree with that. I think this also crosses over into the "game of chance" approach where models play some game (usually sicsors, paper, stone) and the winner gets to gunge the loser each time.

These are two big turn ons for me. I have had several self sploshing sessions with my dice and code sheet eg throw a 1=tin of rice pud. Followed by a 4 = over the head The sense of anticipation is great.

I did a session at crazygirls along these lines a few years ago...managed to throw something like 6 consecutive 'in the knickers' shots It was both hilarious for everyone and erotically humiliating to have to pack everyting from spaghetti hoops to jam in the poor girls knickers. Someone had to do it though

[Hayley]

Perhaps we should have a rule that anyone who makes blonde jokes here should be made to sit fully clothed in a bath filled with 500 litres of custard...

Fine by me!

[messymercedes]

You can make as many Blond jokes as you like Who's gonna get the custard?

Cede xx

[jammed06]

well for me it has got to be somthing in my childhood, maybe always wanting to go on get your own back or fun house, but i think its also partly triggered by growing up on my mates farm when i used to come home every weekend coverd head to toe in mud. it was ace, and as i grew up i stopped going and now wam at home mainly with myself but ive tried as many things as i can actually think of, a list of what people have tried would be quite good good old pubety the feeling of custard making u excited ace. i havent looked back since and its been over 2 years.

james