18-year-old first messy session. Advice?
Posted: 05 Mar 2013, 11:47
Hi there!
So i might be experiencing my first messy session with a girl (and ever) soon. We're not in a relationship and she's recently come out as asexual but we've always confided in one another as we grew up, often sharing our sexual experiences with one another which helped us better understand the other gender. I've lived in denial of having a splosh fetish for several years and we often used to joke about the fetish together but it slowly dawned on me that what i initially thought was a weird fetish and what i though was just a childhood fondness i had for gunge and mess was actually developing into a fetish as i grew older.
Anyway I came out to her as having this fetish a few days ago and she suggested we have a pie fight in real life. If this goes ahead not only will it be my first messy experience but it will also be my first erotic experience (for me at least) with a member of the opposite sex. I have no idea how i'm going to react in such an event so i'm naturally quiet nervous about it and i admitted to her i'll be really awkward and embarrassed as she's said she wouldn't mind doing some of the more cheeky stuff such as being pied in crotch, rear and breasts . I don't know if i'll pop a hard on or not which would be cringe-worthy.
Can I have some general advice as well as where to do it, where to buy pie materials which aren't going to cost and arm and a leg, what to wear etc etc etc as i assume you're all seasoned veterans of the fetish. She wants something edible, e.g. whipped cream rather than shaving foam but apart from that I think that is her only request.
So i might be experiencing my first messy session with a girl (and ever) soon. We're not in a relationship and she's recently come out as asexual but we've always confided in one another as we grew up, often sharing our sexual experiences with one another which helped us better understand the other gender. I've lived in denial of having a splosh fetish for several years and we often used to joke about the fetish together but it slowly dawned on me that what i initially thought was a weird fetish and what i though was just a childhood fondness i had for gunge and mess was actually developing into a fetish as i grew older.
Anyway I came out to her as having this fetish a few days ago and she suggested we have a pie fight in real life. If this goes ahead not only will it be my first messy experience but it will also be my first erotic experience (for me at least) with a member of the opposite sex. I have no idea how i'm going to react in such an event so i'm naturally quiet nervous about it and i admitted to her i'll be really awkward and embarrassed as she's said she wouldn't mind doing some of the more cheeky stuff such as being pied in crotch, rear and breasts . I don't know if i'll pop a hard on or not which would be cringe-worthy.
Can I have some general advice as well as where to do it, where to buy pie materials which aren't going to cost and arm and a leg, what to wear etc etc etc as i assume you're all seasoned veterans of the fetish. She wants something edible, e.g. whipped cream rather than shaving foam but apart from that I think that is her only request.