Help again!

[tongy2k]

Since I last posted (sorry it was around 4 years ago) I have split up with my partner who absolutely loved sploshing! I now have a new partner who will indulge with me but I can tell she doesn't like it and only does it to please me! ... Which unfortunate is a massive turn off for me if she's having no fun then neither am I!
Have other members on here had this??
My next question is how then do I scratch my sploshing itch! Of course I don't want to be unfaithful but this is driving me crazy! ... I need a good sploshing and a good fun girl to splosh with please help

Many thanks

[messyalan]

My wife used to indulge but isn't really interested. However she is happy for me to indulge when she is out of the house. Basically hidden in plain sight. As your current partner knows of your likes she should be okay with you playing on your own.

[tongy2k]

Thanks for the reply Alan, it's hard having a fetish like this isn't it, I hate doing it on my own, I want to include another person and for me it is very sexual, I have done it on my own but that only seems like a stop gap, until I can include someone else! ...flipping heck!

[dougiezerts]

Have you talked much with her about it? Maybe you should. Tell her it's important to you, and you'd rather that she enjoy it.
Negotiate. Suggest different liquids/substances. Perhaps one of them she'll find fun.

[driversoft]

You need to meet halfway - find a joint fantasy that can at some point incorporate a little mess. If you can find a fantasy in which you can both 'go with the flow' (no pun intended!) then neither of you will be anxious about the Sploshing bit working out - that should do the trick.