Curious about female wammers being found out

[sweetnpied]

Hi everyone!
Was visiting the umd site and noticing all the pics so readily on display of women wamming, and an idea just popped into my head, so I posted a new topic there and thought it might be fun to start one here, too.

As those of you who chat with me have found out, I try to be pretty careful about what info I reveal about myself. My pic doesn't show my face. I don't give away exactly where I live (although I think some of you are piecing the clues together by now). I don't let the people I know know about what I do, other than hubby, of course.

But I'm guessing there are a lot of fascinating stories out there of women who have had people they know discover, completely accidentally and not intended by the wammer, what they do. (I'm sure there are great stories with the fellas, too.) I mean, there HAS to be a few of you, even the "pros," who have had to deal with a family member or a friend or a co-worker (or, god forbid, a boss) unexpectedly discovering, "Oh my god, she's (he's) into THAT???" I'd love to hear them. I'm sure some will be funny, some embarassing, some poignant and some will be all 3. I might also pick up some tips on remaining annonymous, so this isn't totally without a motive on my part to benefit myself as well.

I know this is not exactly on-topic, but I think it's close enough. Besides, I think this has the potential to be a fun diversion. So have a whack at it.
Christina

[messyanthony]

I added this pic with a bunch others of my g/f and I session we had on UMD. I asked her when I was posting if she was sure it would be alright. She said yea.. "doesn't matter. If someone sees it and bring its up to me it most likely someone else with the fetish. So what would the big deal be. Id just tell that person that's what your into." The way she sees it is nothing wrong with having fun with her boy friend with a kink. Besides taking pics of her doing something naughty like that really got her wild.

[Candy Custard]

I try not to worry too much about being caught. I have had a couple of close calls though, I have also appeared in a couple of articles, but only with my face messy enough to at least not be blatantly recogniseable as me.

There isn't anyone in my side of the family I'd be bothered about knowing. My mum has even joined up here and has done some sessions before after I told her what I had been up to... anyone I date gets to know all about it straight away, I would never hide that... it's just my daughter and her dads side of the family I wouldn't want knowing.

[muckypup]

I added this pic with a bunch others of my g/f and I session we had on UMD. I asked her when I was posting if she was sure it would be alright. She said yea.. "doesn't matter. If someone sees it and bring its up to me it most likely someone else with the fetish. So what would the big deal be. Id just tell that person that's what your into." The way she sees it is nothing wrong with having fun with her boy friend with a kink. Besides taking pics of her doing something naughty like that really got her wild.

Great to see you over here! As I think others have said, she's a keeper

[sweetnpied]

My mum has even joined up here and has done some sessions before after I told her what I had been up to.

That puts a new twist to the saying, "The family that plays together stays together," doesn't it? Ewwww, I just realized as I re-read this that I could be suggesting incest here. Did NOT mean it that way. Just that they share a very curious interest.

[Hayley]

Yes I have had experience of being 'found out'. In the early days, when I was a touring saleswoman, somebody recognised me as 'the girl who rolls around in chocolate and that' in front of one of my clients and I stopped appearing for a long while convinced I'd lose my job.

Now, apart from having a different job, I am older and realise the worst that can happen is that somebody sees me doing something for fun and enjoying myself. I wouldn't get sacked for it, just a bit of mild ribbing. And, frankly, if they came to this site to see it then chances are they like messy women anyway so no harm. I personally wouldn't do it on TV or in a mainstream mag though because my children and their friends are avid devourers of all media new and old along with their friends and, although they are unlikely to find me here, they or their parents would on TV, Youtube, my own Facebook page etc.

In short then I am happy to appear on fetish sites (where everyone seeing me will be a fellow fetishist) but nothing more mainstream. In fact I am a member of several fetish sites/forums these days and absolutely nobody has ever recognised me at all! Either that or the 'fan' is too embarrassed to admit where they know me from!

Hayley x

[jonn]

This same topic is currently being discussed on UMD. (Hi Ant good to see you here too) So I shall say the same thing. I think it's an age thing, certainly the older we have got the less we have worried after all as I said before it is harmless and fun and a lot of what we do doesn't even require an adult certificate, in fact if we are completely honest you can see a lot more in the daily papers here in the UK. I think the main problem is because it is different we feel embaressed about it. We're doing nothing wrong, nothing that anyone could really object to but we feel we have to conform to be accepted. Thankfully we are both old enough now to not worry about that anymore after all the governer of Alaska, Sarah Palin thinks it is fine even during an election campaign to show how she loves to kill inocent animals for fun. I know which I'd rather have known about me

Cheers Jonn (Yamtree)