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Seeking help and advice...

PostPosted: 27 Oct 2009, 08:03
by CustardPie
Hello friends...

I have been a lurker on the Splosh scene for a long time and love any WAM, but the messier the better. he trouble is that, despite taking advice and telling my partner (and introducing her gently etc.) she is really not into WAM. We have had one messy session and I have been too embarrassed to ask for more mess. (I know that this is silly as we have been together for many years). I have had an idea of a WAM session for my birthday (which is coming up soon) for a number of years but have bottled asking her every time...

I really would like to have a good WAM session, I feel I am rusting as it were for the lack of mess! But I am not sure how to go about it...

Does anyone have any help or advice, have you been in a similar situation or just want to tell me to snap out of it and get on with some messing?

Thanks in advance, I am sure someone will have some sound advice and I appreciate this...

And now back to the normal service! :D

Rich

PS: As a thank you for reading this (as I have no photos) here is a link to a story I wrote, you may enjoy! : http://www.wamstoryarchive.com/ViewStory.php?ID=57

Re: Seeking help and advice...

PostPosted: 27 Oct 2009, 11:24
by eden
ASK. YOUR. PARTNER. If you haven't asked her again how the hell do you know she's not up for it? She could be just as embarrased as you. And if you haven't mentioned it since she is probably really miffed because she did something for you and thinks you didn't like it.

And birthday or not, this is only your second session, so be prepared to get everything ready, clean everything up and do whatever it is she wants afterwards.