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Yo gang.

So, I have a new girlfriend and all is going swimmingly. She's the first girl I've 'properly' been with since my ex-wife, and it's great to be back in the game as it were.

The thing is, we were talking the other week about what 'floats our boat' so I of course mentioned WAM. Her reaction? Brilliant. She's well up for it, like, properly up for it. She talks about it all the time, it's great. Add to this the fact that she also gets a kick out of dressing up and it makes for one hell of a situation!

The problem is, I'm petrified! It's been soooooo long (like, years) since I ever gunged anyone, and now I'm losing my bottle with it.

Is it something that has ever happened to any of you lot, or am I just being a tart?

Argh! Any advice would go down a treat!

Anything that means a lot to you can make you nervous if you haven't done it for a while. Add to that someone else you really like 'bigging it up' as well and there is a certain amount of self-imposed pressure. Just remember, this isn't a one-off. With a bit of luck, you'll be sploshing together over and over, so don't pressurise yourself into putting everything you want in the first session and expecting it to be perfect. Play it by ear, nice and gently, responding to what she's enjoying. Why not tell her that you're nervous cos she means so much to you? That way she might help you along with ideas that appeal to her. Then, what I have found, is I feel more relaxed cos it is more about what she wants than what I like (even when they are one and the same). A partner is there to share everything, even nerves, so tell her and enjoy what you can first time, and then build it up from there.

hey cmpod83....

Just play it cool... if life has taught me anything - girls get scared when things become a big deal. my wife (for eg) will point blankly refuse to go mud-hunting with me, just because i call it mud hunting. if i'd called it a day-trip however.... no worries. she's there (and obviously i happen to come across mud - great!)

I also made the mistake with her of showing her proper fetish pics of sploshing, instead of just vids of people getting gunged (on gameshows or as a lark) off a non fetish site (like youtube) - and even that has put her off somewhat.

so... just play it cool... play around in the kitchen and break an egg over her first... (making sure she hasn't got "good" clothes on)... see where things lead, and like Bill said - build it up (gradually).

Yes you are a tart

Seriously though, congratulations it sounds like you've found a good one so I'm sure the outcome will be great. And if not you can always keep experimenting together until it is great

Have fun. All the best, let us know how it turns out!