ooooh, juicy thread eden nice one. This is going to be a looooong (and very personal
response from me...hehe
wam - I would class maybe a a kink.... im not sure, becuase the porn side of it turns me on but doing it in real life becomes more sensual sexy play.... erotica to heighten the senses rather than being turned on by the look of it, then its the feel, and the naughtiness of doing something you are not 'meant' to do... but then sometimes it can be purely playful, a release and more slapstick and a laugh rather than sexual, though it leads to sexual stuff... sometimes a bit of everything at once...oh I dont know, its an odd one that! very complex...multifaceted, but I love it all!
Aside from wam I love bondage and dom/sub roleplay. I can switch quite easily but essentially, deep down I am sub. I have to have emotional attachment to be able to be truly sub though, but for dom I can do that without a second thought. having said that I think MonMouth, the guy that write this blog
http://monmouth.blogspot.com/ could have me in 'helpless' mode pretty damned quickly... heres 3 of my fave extracts from it..........
"Saturday, August 25, 2007
What to bring
"You bring the wine, I'll bring the lube."
"Red or white," I asked, smiling at the thought of those two bottles standing side by side on her dresser. She was calling from a train station platform. Behind her, the announcement for the 2.19 to somewhere north.
"White. Get it chilled - the fridge is somewhat feeble."
I didn't ask. "Sure. Anything else? How are you set for food?"
"Good point. Can you drop by the deli?"
I said I would. She sounded rushed, too many things on her mind. "Look, just be there, and I'll bring the goodies. Except the lube. You've got that covered."
Later, I would place the cold bottle, wet with condensation, on her bottom, red from spanking.
She would wince in blindfolded surprise, then sigh deeply.
But that was later."
and
"Saturday, August 18, 2007
Exercise 6: Imprint
For this exercise, you need one tube of very red lipstick, a flat spanking paddle with a shiny surface, and a camera.
First, instruct the spankee to apply the lipstick generously, particularly in the middle of the top and bottom lips. If it's a boy, all the more naughty.
Then, with freshly painted lips, the spankee should kiss the middle of the paddle, transferring as much of the lipstick as possible on to its surface, then bend over.
Apply one steady, straight and moderately forceful stroke of the paddle, pressing it tightly up against the spankee's buttock. This should, if all goes as planned, leave a lip-imprint on the skin as if the sub had somehow kissed his/her own arse.
Take a digital photo, set the camera to show it, place the screen in front of the sub to enjoy looking at while being spanked"
and
"
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Welt
The scratches down my forearm lasted only a day or so. There were marks a bit longer where she had dug her nails into the mound of my deltoid while I held her thighs apart and slid my tongue up and down the length of her slit. Her scent filled my nostrils and she ground the wet softness of her cunt into my face - in the midst of all this I couldn't possibly notice the welts forming on my skin. Or rather, I noticed, but I didn't care, the sensation adding to the intoxication of the moment.
When I got up to find the condoms, she lunged for my cock with her mouth. Playing the game, I couldn't let her get what she wanted so easily. I slapped her face softly but firmly with the flat of my hand.
"Restrain yourself, or you'll get punished."
She smirked and took another shot, her mouth open, hungry.
I slapped her again across the face, harder, back and forth, the palm and the back of my hand striking the warm, flushed cheeks. To keep her still I held her head by clutching a handful of her brown curls between my fingers.
Once the condom was on I had the good sense to hold her down by the wrists while I slid myself into the twitching grasp of her pussy"
oh.my.god.
other things I like include tights... for many reasons... filling them with slop... and theres something irresistably naughty about the 'not quite but almost' barrier... and someone sliding a hand inside them. I love 'fuck me' shoes (buying them, wearing them, and seeing other girls in them) and having anything done to my own feet, and the look of girly feet. I love convincing cd/tvs as well... very sexy
w/s I can live without, though its ok and could be interesting combined with a little roleplay. I would have to be seriously bored with my sex life and pretty much exhaust all other avenues before I would suggest doing that myself, which I cant see happening, though im always open to the suggestion from someone else
my biggest, ultimate fetish is cunnilingus. yes, fetish. I know youd be hard pushed to find a girl that doesnt like it, but trust me youd have an even tougher time finding one that likes it more than me ohhhhmygod its just my favourite thing on the planet ever. cant ever live without it...watching it pornwise, or receiving it, couldnt live without either. I mean seriously, couldnt live. I would go completely stark staring insane!! If I had to choose just one fetishy type thing for the rest of my life it would be that!
hopefully no ones going to make me choose though - lol the very best thing about wam is it can be incorporated into all of those, sometimes a few at once and im sure many other things out there that people like too
blimey. feel rather warm now!
Posted: 09 Nov 2008, 11:51
