I touched on this in my 'Greetings' post. It's always been easier for me to meet men for messy fun in the past, maybe it's because we're not putting ourselves in potentially awkward situations which may scare off some women from meeting 'unknown' WAM buddies.
I'm not gay but have no problems whatsoever indulging in food fights etc with other guys. In some cases it's even got a little naughty and I've not felt this to be a threat to my sexuality, in fact I've found it very liberating.
Personally I love playing the messy stooge that is totally dominated by whoever my messy master or mistress happens to be that day. Interestingly I've only really found men into playing that role, or is it that I've just been lucky ?
There's nothing more arousing than having a funnel inserted into the front of your trousers and then a bossy, strong minded person SLOWLY pouring a litre carton of cold custard down there before standing back to laugh at how ridiculous I look
