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Can anyone explain why in the past few months I've lost interest in Sploshing/WAM?

One minute couldn't got enough of it, always looking for an excuse to get messy, but now can't be bothered

Don't now if any of you out there are a Splosh psychologist or not and can explain why I've lost interest or do I just need some pie rehabilitation

Regards,
wamram

You may have reached your goal when you had a session, though once you get to that stage you have to set your sights higher, maybe its that, or maybe you just want a break.

regards

Andy

Yeah I don't know either it seems to go in phases for me too, I'm pretty sure other people I've chatted to seem the same.

wamram wrote:
Don't now if any of you out there are a Splosh psychologist or not and can explain why I've lost interest or do I just need some pie rehabilitation

Well, I just happen to be a splosher and have a psychology degree. (Not that I went to any of the lectures, but there you go.)

Don't worry. Shit happens and we all loose interest in sex and our fetishes from time to time. If you're feeling down generally, that might be why. But just don't worry about it too much and if you're feeling down or stressed just try to relax. Theres the doctor if anythings really bad. But like Andy said, maybe you need a break.

Or someone can dress as a sexy psychiatrist and give you some splosh therapy! A special pieing couch and a nice Germanic accent maybe. x

It's your splosh biorythms...nothing to worry about I reckon. If there's lots of other big things going on in life that might also explain it. A few messy pictures of Eden or Candy should sort you out

yeah it is funny. I've lost interest in wam over the past year, kinda the same feeling of cant be bothered. Still flick through the forums from time to time though

Like others have said maybe just need a break

Ohhh just noticed my post count....cant believe thats my first post after all the years of browsing these forums. Really should make more effort

I think interest in most things like fetishes comes and goes, especially if you are looking at it every day. If you had chocolate for every breakfast you'd want a change now and then, however much you liked it.

The important thing is not to beat yourself up for liking or disliking it.

awww love - I think youve been through quite a lot recently and thats bound to affect things.... and like all the others have said the phases are normal... don't worry about it, it will all come flooding back when it wants to! xxxxx

BillShipton wrote:I think interest in most things like fetishes comes and goes, especially if you are looking at it every day. If you had chocolate for every breakfast you'd want a change now and then, however much you liked it.

The important thing is not to beat yourself up for liking or disliking it.

Good advice Bill. But how do you yourself manage to maintain such a constant and high level of 'interest'?

matt2matt2002 wrote:Good advice Bill. But how do you yourself manage to maintain such a constant and high level of 'interest'?

Well, it isn't the money!!

I like different aspects of it at different times, sometimes it's the comedy, sometimes it's the mild humiliation, sometimes it's the costumes.... Also I am surrounded by enthusiastic models and forum members whose attitude and ideas usually perk me up when I'm feeling 'sploshed out'.

shredder wrote:

Writing out streams of self-analytical babble helps too!

More or less how I managed to scrape a degree, so yeah

Have you lost interest in anything else, Wamram? Sometimes an abrupt change of mood can signal the onset of mild or more serious depression. If this is the case, you ought to seek medical advice.

Hoping you feel like wamming again soon.

I know exactly how you feel Wamram, There have been happenings this year which has really pissed me off as well,and to a large degree i have lost interest, i did mention it at the last Bristol meet to some present.

Basically i am now only doing pics when i wish to, i still have to make a living and in the current economic climate this means doing longer hours for me in my job,as my home and private life come before wam.

I will still be around and active on this forum and am not going to vanish but pics will be somewhat rarer than before.

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