Help and Advice

I've been self wamming for a few years now. I thought that I was perverted or not normal but after reading Bizarre this month I've realised that I'm not that wierd and there are other people like me in this strange and wonderfull world. I've had to cut my sessions down a bit in the past few years as my wife is not keen on wamming, which is her right (or wrong). Now I've found a whole community and I wanna get involved again. Any hints/tips I can get would be great. I wanna come to the meet in Sep, in London. Does anyone think this would be a good idea?