WAM and sex - first time

[Phantom]

Although I've been into WAM since I was into women, and I've had a few sessions at Splosh studios, last night I was my first ever REAL messy sex.

And it was awesome.

I'm having a bit of a fling at the moment, with a girl who is possibly the wildest woman I've ever experienced. When it comes to sex, there doesn't seem to be anything she isn't into or willing to try.

Last night, when we were in the supermarket getting booze and snacks etc for the hotel, I took a chance and suggested we also get a can of whipped cream.

A few hours later and slightly drunk, we were in the hotel bathroom. I won't go into the biology of it and make you all puke, but I emptied most of that can of whipped cream over her tits, ass, pussy, face and hair. I loved every minute.

The best thing - afterwards, she kept going on about how much fun it was, and how horny it made her. She said it was just a shame we didn't have the digital camera (she's into posing for naughty photos).

It looks like there'll definitely be a next time, and with her permission I'll post some pics here. I've also asked her to bring a bikini or spare underwear next time, so I can do some knicker filling too. I don't want to push my luck, but I plan to gradually increase the amount of food we use, and start inlcuding things like yoghurt and pudding. Eventually, I hope to get her to bring along some of her office clothes - short skirt and blouse.

When I got home this afternoon, I emailed her a small selection of whipped cream orgy pics from Eromaxx. Got a text message half an hour later saying she thought they were really sexy.

Game on!

One happy Phantom

[alext]

Heh, Congratulations Phantom, sounds like you had a great time

[Hayley]

Yay, well done. See women like that do exist....

Hayley

[ekane]

Good on you. Yes slowly increase the quanity that should do it. Were can you find theses girls?

[Phantom]

Ekane

I think there are loads of women out there who will happily dabble in mild WAM for playful fun. If you already feel comfortable with the girl, then suggesting a can of whipped cream is hardly going to make her run for the hills.

I've suggested it to two or three other girls previously. Two gave it a go, but weren't very keen, and one said she didn't think it sounded very sexy, so I left it at that.

So, really ... I've involved food in sex a few times before (and baby oil too), but this is the first time I've had a favourable response like this and really enjoyed it.

Think about it the other way round - if a girl told you she had a secret fantasy and asked if you'd be willing to give it a go, would you tell her to get lost? Hell no! You'd proably think "Wow! What a girl! She has secret kinky fantasies ... let's give it a go!"

For example ... this girl I've just had the WAM sex with? She's got this thing about leaving the hotel curtains open, so that anonymous people in the neighbouring hotel can see us having sex. Now that's something that doesn't particualarly turn me on, but I'm happy to do it, because it makes her extra horny. It all adds to the fun.

Phantom

[ekane]

Thanks Phantom I just have to get out there and meet like minded females

[captain sensible]

There's also the 'escalation' scenario to consider, as well as just piling straight in with major sploshing right from the start. For example:

I've been in a relationship for a couple of months, and one night a couple of weeks ago my girlfriend decided she's like a back rub. I was happy to oblige. So after a few minutes' normal, sensible massaging, I scooped up a handful of the Body Shop body butter we were using (highly recommended, btw!) and splattered it in the small of the back. She shrieked at the cold touch of it, but almost immediately added that she loved how slithery it felt when I used a load of it like that. Before long she was slathering me in it too, and we were having wonderfully slippery sex. And she was every bit as enthusiastic about it as me...

The next evening we were playfully splashing each other as we walked along the beach near where she lives, and when we were both in the sea up to our knees I asked her if she'd ever been swimming in her clothes.

"No," she said.

"Shall we?" I asked.

"Do you want to?" she said.

"I fancy a swim," I said. "And I'd like it if you joined me."

She joined me. I ended up wanting to come out of the water before she did! It was quite a long, cold walk back to her place and a hot shower, but well worth it...

So all I can do is echo Phantom's comments that there are girls out there who enjoy getting wet and messy, but don't necessarily recognise that it's a fetish! And a good way to awaken that interest is to start in subtle ways (eg a back rub - what woman could refuse that? Or man, come to that?) and see if anything comes of it...