The Splosh UK Forum

Just a quick head count, kind of helps when you know you are not alone, reading some posts I think I am in a similiar situation to others, I am a 34yr old male have always been into splosh, as far back as I care to remember, I have never found a girlfriend who shows any enthusiasm for sploshing, I have a longterm girlfriend at present and she knows how I feel about this but says she cant get into it enough to do it. My other problem is a big part of this is the genuine enjoyment of the female, thats what I like in pictures, it just doesn't do anything otherwise. Is my experience common, just a yeah will suffice.
On the other hand a big cheer for the ladies of this site who have helped keep me sane over the years. Thanks one and all.

Agree completely on the "must be enjoying it" aspect. One of the "rules" at Saturtion Hall is we only want to work with models who have a laugh and enjoy the experience.

On the g/f thing, I'm lucky in being asexual, I find I get on with women better as friends, mates to go clubbing with, go on train rides or exploring the landscape, than as traditional "girlfriends". Have had a few g/fs, all of whom were willing to do WAM and found it amusing, but only did it for me, they didn't get into it themselves.

Cheers for reply, guess the situation isn't as common as I thought. Its a double edge sword though, I love her to bits but am struggling to move on because of this, partly why she is still just my girlfriend!

Hi

I think quite a lot of men have reluctant partners when it comes to sploshing but I know a lot of women who have reluctant partners when it comes to their fave kinks (including sploshing!).

As I've said on this forum before, I find a fetish swap works well - "I'll do yours if you do mine" - or adapting your thing so that it incorporates things your partner does like.

Although I had never really tried sploshing sexually till I met Bill I soon realised it encorporated a lot of things I have always fantasised about as well as the mess (which I enjoyed anyway). It also give me a chance to wear outfits I have always dreamed about wearing. Perhaps approaching it from the position of wht does turn her on and then adding a bit of mess might be the answer.

Aunite Hayley x