Is it just me!

[Pete800]

Just a quick head count, kind of helps when you know you are not alone, reading some posts I think I am in a similiar situation to others, I am a 34yr old male have always been into splosh, as far back as I care to remember, I have never found a girlfriend who shows any enthusiasm for sploshing, I have a longterm girlfriend at present and she knows how I feel about this but says she cant get into it enough to do it. My other problem is a big part of this is the genuine enjoyment of the female, thats what I like in pictures, it just doesn't do anything otherwise. Is my experience common, just a yeah will suffice.
On the other hand a big cheer for the ladies of this site who have helped keep me sane over the years. Thanks one and all.

[DungeonMasterOne]

Agree completely on the "must be enjoying it" aspect. One of the "rules" at Saturtion Hall is we only want to work with models who have a laugh and enjoy the experience.

On the g/f thing, I'm lucky in being asexual, I find I get on with women better as friends, mates to go clubbing with, go on train rides or exploring the landscape, than as traditional "girlfriends". Have had a few g/fs, all of whom were willing to do WAM and found it amusing, but only did it for me, they didn't get into it themselves.

[Pete800]

Cheers for reply, guess the situation isn't as common as I thought. Its a double edge sword though, I love her to bits but am struggling to move on because of this, partly why she is still just my girlfriend!

[Hayley]

Hi

I think quite a lot of men have reluctant partners when it comes to sploshing but I know a lot of women who have reluctant partners when it comes to their fave kinks (including sploshing!).

As I've said on this forum before, I find a fetish swap works well - "I'll do yours if you do mine" - or adapting your thing so that it incorporates things your partner does like.

Although I had never really tried sploshing sexually till I met Bill I soon realised it encorporated a lot of things I have always fantasised about as well as the mess (which I enjoyed anyway). It also give me a chance to wear outfits I have always dreamed about wearing. Perhaps approaching it from the position of wht does turn her on and then adding a bit of mess might be the answer.

Aunite Hayley x