*London meet up 25th of November - roll call*

[Smiley]

I will be there. I am a new member and have just seen this thread about a meet. I wish I had found this forum ages ago.

Hi, fantastic to hear from you. Always good to see new comers. It will be a blast. If you have any questions please do not hesitate in contacting me

[Philis]

I'm not sure yet but I might be in london
If I am I'd love to come along

[chantelle]

Making no promises Boys, BUT i am coming up to London to do some Christmas shopping in next few weeks and it would be on a Sat as other half is home to look after Kalia, if its that weekend i will pop in for a while.
Dont know any of you but you would know me i would be wearing my standard shopping clothes: Black Leather Jacket, Jeans and Black high heeled thighboots and of course im a dizzy blonde I drink Glenmorangie by the way

Kisses
Chantelle
xx.

[andy250]

Would be great if you got chance, the group is a great bunch of people, if they weren't I wouldn't travel all the way from Manchester, I can hear Wamadeus already saying he's beat me with all the travelling he does.

Went to get the tickets today from Virgin trains whay a nightmare that was had to queue for half an hour, was a great woman behind the counter I was getting me tickets off would loved to of sploshed her!!!!!

Would be nice to meet Chantelle her site was just closing as I came back on line.

regards

Andy
(ye of the ticket queue!!!!)

[stonecastle]

It would be good if there were more women coming.

[Phantom]

Be grateful Stonecastle - the last few meets seem to all have had 2 or more women present.

The only meets I went to were the early ones, and they were all-male. Admittedly, those males were wonderful chaps - friendly, easy to talk to etc .... but to this day, I STILL haven't met a female WAMmer face to face.

I think it's so wonderful that the meets have grown in strength and reputation to the point that more and more of the girls feel secure in coming along to join the fun.

As always - I wish wish WISH I could be there. Hope it's a good one, everyone!

Phantom



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[Smiley]

Phantom, wish you were around for them. After all you are the founder of these meets!

As for girls, these meets really are about building trust. The amount of females attending are growing as the meets go on. The group can now go on past Merritt and continue to build a good reputation.

Obviously it takes time for this to happen but we are starting to see the benefits now.

[DecadentDoll]

It would be good if there were more women coming.

i have no problem coming to meets, but when guys put emphasis on wanting them there...a lot of girls tend to get creeped out and think "am i gonna be put on show? are these guys going to be sleazy?" .. when that isn't the case at all.... at past meets we've had Gungeslut, nicole, mercedes, Lisa and myself....

it is growing, and girls are getting more confidence to come along

As it is, don't be put off that the majority are guys, its all about making contacts

[messylaura]

It would be good if there were more women coming.

i have no problem coming to meets, but when guys put emphasis on wanting them there...a lot of girls tend to get creeped out and think "am i gonna be put on show?

oh thats not true, ............... dont for get your costume though, on and have you remembered your lines?, ....................... do you prefer a spot light or a flood light?.

[DecadentDoll]

It would be good if there were more women coming.

i have no problem coming to meets, but when guys put emphasis on wanting them there...a lot of girls tend to get creeped out and think "am i gonna be put on show?

oh thats not true, ............... dont for get your costume though, on and have you remembered your lines?, ....................... do you prefer a spot light or a flood light?.

bunch of bloody amateurs! i can't work under these bloody conditions!

[andy250]

This always seems to crop up?? Dolly is completley right, I go out to make new friends not put people on show. It is always harder for women to appear as themselves and not the person on the pics as it where.

The meets are designed for this purpose its not a meet to get messy, its a couple of drinks (or a quiet few in our case!!!) and a chance to make new friends or meet old one's.

I have quiet a few female friends who will get messy for me, this doesn't mean they have to do it all the time.

At the last meet i met Gs and Lisa both are really nice people, I look out for everybodys pics, due to the fact I have met them and class them as a mate.

regards

Andy
(ye of the farther figure, how sad!!!! never get into your mid 30's)

[Smiley]

Okay here is a list of whos coming so far....

In any order...

Confirmed...

Easy_as
GungeSlut
James
Sploshman
Bobby
Driversoft
Andy
Wamadeus
Messboy
Stonecastle

Maybe baby...

Essexgungefan
Chantelle
DecadentDoll
Philis

So things are looking good so far and of course who knows who will show up on the day. Remember not everyone posts in advance

Not long to go now.....

[easy_as_]

It would be good if there were more women coming.

Hi SC, nice to see a new name on the roster !

I really just want to echo what others have said. Phantom, James and myself have done a lot of work to keep the meets going over the last two years or so.
The reason they were set up is for people to meet people. Not to be somewhere to ' pull ' a splosher of the opposite sex, or even the same sex for that matter !

I agree it would be nice if there was an equal balance of male to female, but quite frankly I really don't care.
Each meet-up I have been to, I have thouroughly enjoyed and always made a new friend or two.
So it's got nothing to do with how many men or women turn up, it's really a case of drink beer and get chatting.

As regard to asking for more women to be there, it's the one thing that will likely put women off the most.
Let's face it, you don't want to ' creep ' out any potential attendees. Basically, what Dolly said.

Anyhow, see you there !

[stonecastle]

Well I have been to loads of internet message board meets over the past five and half years for various websites and for three chatroom meets aswell. Most people on those sites weren't put off by the mention of wanting more women to attend. I would have joined this forum two years ago if I had found it then. I think I know what you mean though as sploshing is slightly sexual.

[DecadentDoll]

Well I have been to loads of internet message board meets over the past five and half years for various websites and for three chatroom meets aswell. Most people on those sites weren't put off by the mention of wanting more women to attend. I would have joined this forum two years ago if I had found it then. I think I know what you mean though as sploshing is slightly sexual.

its not that we're put off by the mention of it, it's just that girls are less likely to travel alone, and if they havent got a friend or confidante who knows of their fetish, they're less likely to go, especially if they think the guys are there simply to pull....

i think sploshing is very sexual

and this forum isn't a year old yet, we're still only a little baby