PartnerInGrime wrote:theregoesmyhead wrote:Wow, these pics are great! Thanks so much for sharing them with the rest of us.
I wondered if 'Partner in Grime' might be able to answer a question:
as you are a novice and you've been introduced to it by your lucky hubby, do you 'get' sploshing? Do you understand the appeal?
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Interesting that you should ask, I'd never come across sploshing before and when hubby told me about it, my first thought was that I was more than happy to give it a whirl as it didn't seem to be something that would be too difficult to indulge.
What I hadn't anticipated was that I would enjoy it so much! Our first session together was great. For him, he hadn't anticipated that we would laugh so much because it had always been his guilty secret that he indulged on his own, and for me (an organised ordered person) it was brilliant to completely let go, it felt naughty and therefore sexy and it wasn't until I actually tried it that I discovered this.
I then wanted to splosh him (hence the session posted here) which was fantastic, the abandon and mess was so much fun and reeeeally sexy.
I guess like any kind of fetish or kink it may be something different for different people, is it the abandon / naughty thing for others??.
I would also say it was easy for me to embrace my hubby's fetish because (and I think this is important for most women) he told me that it was important to him that he was able to share it with me, not just that he needed to indulge it. If there are any men or women out there who don't know how to broach it with a partner (male or female) I would advise that they approach their partner with the notion that they want to splosh with 'them', not just that they want to splosh.
Thanks for the reply. I'm always interested to hear what newbies think of 'our' fetish. I've been sploshing for so long that I've almost forgotten what it felt like to discover it for the first time.
Personally I can identify with many of the themes you touch on - the feeling of carefree abandon, and the feeling of doing something naughty (ruining clothes). The slapstick element, the silliness is also a lot of fun. I remember when I first discovered splosh it was the look and feel of wet and messy clothes that was a turn on - a typically male response.
Over the years though my fetish has developed, and to a certain extent I've widened my horizons. So these days my splosh sessions often involve elements of cross dressing, fetish wear, and mild humiliation. I've often wondered whether this is because I'm older and wiser and the psychology is more important, or whether I just keep on thinking of new ways to keep it interesting, and ultimately still a turn on.
I've rather lost my train of thought, so I'll leave it there. Anyway, thanks again for your lovely photos, keep enjoying it, there's a whole world of mess to discover out there.
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